Tell Him What You Want.....

Ladies, tell him what you want. Don’t suppress what you want, don’t be afraid of rejection, don’t be embarrassed. Just tell him…

Tell him your expectations…
Tell him you want a man that smells good…
Tell him you want a man that dresses sexy…
Tell him you want him to be proud he has a woman as fine as you…
Tell him you love his touch…
Tell him you love his kiss…
Tell him his voice gives you shivers…
Tell him he’s handsome…
Tell him he’s sexy…
Tell him he’s fine…
Tell him he’s beautiful…
Tell him you want him…
Tell him he’s the only one that has made you feel the way you do…
Tell him you miss him…
Tell him you want to make love to him…
Tell him you want to f*#k him…
Tell him you fantasize about him all day…
Tell him what feels good…
Tell him you LOVE him.

Don’t be afraid to share yourself and love hard. Enjoy every minute of a love that is, was, or will be. Have no regrets. So many people give their all in everything they do, but stop short when it comes to love. Don’t be afraid to have your heart broken, it will heal. Don’t be afraid or embarrassed to say what you are feeling, because you may never get another opportunity. Embrace the feeling of being in like, lust, and love. Relish in that first kiss with someone, because it’s always the best one (for most!) and sets the tone of the relationship.

Don’t be afraid to explore one another- physically, spiritually, mentally. Stop hiding behind facades and be you. No one is asking for anything less or anything more. If you are not loved for you, then you are not loved at all.

Find that someone who makes your heart flutter and your stomach flip and burn at the same time, lol! Find that someone whose scent just makes you wanna… Find that someone who’s walk just makes you wanna…Find that someone whose voice just makes you wanna…Find that someone whose touch just makes you wanna…Find that someone whose smile just makes you wanna…

Don’t look for just a husband, look for a companion, a collaborator, a friend, a lover, a partner. Although a husband is supposed to be all of these things to his wife, he may not have the capacity to be your friend or a collaborator. Define who and what is right for you. Love yourself enough to know what is tolerable and what is not. Set your standards and boundaries. And do not let anyone knock you for it. Only you can determine if your standards are realistic or not. Get to know yourself before you look for a partner, collaborator, companion, fried, and lover. Find someone that complements you- make sure there is a balance present in your relationship. It’s not easy, but if you know you and what you will not settle for, you will have the time of your life before and when you find your man.

Don’t let friends and family pressure you to get married. Your age means nothing to that someone looking for you right now. Do what’s right for you when it’s right for you.

So many of us take love lightly, we take it for granted, we take advantage of it, until it comes back to bite us in the ass. Then we say love hurts, love is painful. Love doesn’t and cannot hurt. However, your pride can hurt love. Your jealousies can hurt love. Your disloyalty can hurt love. Your insecurities can hurt love. Your need to control can hurt love. Your abuse can hurt love. Love is a source of happiness, enjoyment, and fulfillment. It’s thrilling, contagious and intoxicating. Think of people you know where the love shines through so purely, you can’t help to smile and feel a smidge of what they are feeling. It’s a beautiful feeling!

Love your man with not only your heart; love him with your mind and body. Love him how you want to be loved. If it doesn’t work out, YOU can say you gave him the best of you.